Most sports have a code of conduct or a particular etiquette that has been built from a foundation of respect into a set of unwritten rules.
As one of the world’s oldest professional sports, Baseball’s unwritten rules are probably the most famous and controversial example, but as with most codes of respect, they are prone to interpretation and ultimately do not directly affect the ranking of a player.
Horse polo is different. It is in a rare group of sports where being respectful and playing the sport the right way can have a direct effect on your handicap.
Even in cricket, this is not the case; the infamous “bodyline” tactic nearly caused an international incident but despite being unbecoming of a gentlemanly sport the test match wins stand to this day.
This means knowing some of the most important unwritten rules of polo is more important than in other sports.
Don’t Be Late
This is not about missing the start time entirely, which is covered in the Hurlingham Polo Association rulebook, but showing up technically on time for the first chukker but not prepared and ready for a contest. It is disrespectful and other players will notice.
Similarly, try not to take too long whilst changing ponies between chukkers.
Apologise After Fouls
Even the best players see the yellow flag sometimes, and it is often best to simply admit your error, apologise and try to avoid repeating the mistake. This attitude matters far more than arguing a borderline penalty.
The Handshake Of Honour
Shaking the hands of people your meet for the first time is good advice in general if you want to network, particularly in the circles polo is typically played in.
Introduce yourself, learn the names of other players and treat the game as a social affair. Intense and competitive polo may be, but it is also a way to make friends, influence people and increase your network of players that will inevitably help your career.
Shake hands after every game as well, whether you win, lose or draw.